The trend of “dating decline” and the so-called “Sampo Generation” (a generation that gives up dating, marriage, and having children) or “Honjok” (living alone and enjoying a solitary lifestyle) has been increasingly prevalent among young people, especially in South кσяєα in recent years. The кσяєαn government is deeply concerned about this trend, as it directly affects the population crisis and even the nation’s long-term survival.
Some of the main reasons why young people—particularly in South кσяєα—are afraid of love or hesitant to start a relationship are believed to include economic and financial pressure, social and cultural expectations, psychological issues and lack of confidence, strong individualism, and a desire for independence. Among these factors, money appears to be the biggest issue, and it also heavily influences young people’s mental state.
However, this certainly does not apply to Jungkook, as he has already achieved financial stability, status, and fame. If we were at Jungkook’s level of wealth and social standing, there would be little reason to feel insecure about dating or starting a romantic relationship. Yet, in reality, he has never shown any signs of “leaving singlehood” over the years.
Many fans believe that his idol career is the main reason why it is difficult for him to date. But that is not the most important factor. For Jungkook himself, there are more than one reasons why he is still not ready to step into a romantic relationship!
First, Jungkook once shared that his Virgo zodiac sign greatly influences his personality as well as the relationships around him. With a careful and reserved nature, he only gets close to people he knows, mostly men and friends in the industry.
On the other hand, it is easy to notice that even though he is still single, Jungkook is very shy about meeting girls, even when it’s work-related. There are many videos showing him “running away” from female artists or hiding behind other BTS members to avoid interacting with the opposite ѕєχ.
Next, Jungkook also revealed his weakness in love, which is not being proactive in relationships. Jungkook shared that it is difficult for him to be the one to start a conversation with a girl or to take the first step in a relationship. And that is exactly why he likes girls who are more proactive in a relationship.
Jungkook admitted that he is not good at expressing affection. In South кσяєα, couples usually do not show too much affection in public but instead use indirect ways, for example through affectionate nicknames, wearing couple accessories, or matching outfits. But even with these мєтнods, Jungkook still finds it difficult to do.
He also added that he is afraid of being the first to say “I love you.” But this is also what makes Jungkook feel guilty if he loves someone, because he fears they might think he doesn’t love them enough, or that the other person will feel hurt because of his lack of outward affection. Therefore, if he does not love, he would rather not start, and that way he would not hurt anyone!
Next, a special point is that Jungkook admitted he is someone very difficult for others to adjust to. Specifically, in one live broadcast, Jungkook once emphasized this by responding to a fan’s comment. When this ARMY commented, “Jungkook, marry me,” he asked whether she could endure him, because he is not someone easy to live with.
Jungkook seriously but also humorously said: "Marrying me? But can you handle me? I'm not someone that's easy to handle". Perhaps, there are certain special habits and a personality not easily expressive of feelings that he considers a limitation in a romantic relationship.
In addition, another important point Jungkook mentioned is that he thinks dating a celebrity in South кσяєα is not easy at all. Even if he wants to keep his girlfriend’s identity private and protect both their privacy, it would be impossible because of too much public attention.
It can be seen that Jungkook is worried that he is not ready and lacks many things to give his girlfriend a safe and happy love. But this very aspect of him reflects how much of an ideal and warm boyfriend he actually is. Just hearing him talk about these things and imagining it already makes fans feel jealous of his future girlfriend!
