Well, it's hard to imagine a leader RM who is always calm and a SUGA who rarely shows anger could quarrel over soмєтнing. But in reality, during the 10 years of being together, there was a time when RM and SUGA had a conflict, even a fíght.
It was a story told by a former HYBE trainee and received a lot of attention from fans. Of course, they couldn't always keep calm and especially when they were both in their 20s, they also had different views on life.
However, after reading this story, you will probably feel that this is more like a cute argument between normal guys than a "war", and their solution is also worth learning:
RM and SUGA seem to be the two members who have been together the longest among the BTS members as they were the first to participate in this project. They are also the members with the longest internship period at the company and their friendship has lasted more than a decade, earning the admiration of many people.
However, to have such an admirable friendship, they also have to go through many arguments and have understanding to maintain their friendship. In particular, it was formed during the years of living together in the dormitory.
Like many other trainees, RM and SUGA lived together for a long time, eating together and doing daily activities together. Basically, they will have to find ways to get along and understand each other to avoid conflicts and form a harmonious group. During that process, the first time RM and SUGA had a big argument also happened.
Specifically, according to the HYBE trainee, at that time, the source of the incident started from RM's clumsiness. In the eyes of ARMY, RM is a great and mature leader, but in reality, Namjoon in his 20s has many shortcomings and often messes up everything around him. He can even break things easily. The objects in BTS's shared dorm were once destroyed at the hands of RM.
Meanwhile, the one who cleans up the ruins and remnants left by RM's hands is SUGA. SUGA also repairs and αssembles things in the shared dorm because he is good at doing these things. But because he had arranged and repaired damaged items caused by RM so many times, one time, he directly complained to his younger brother about this problem. After that, the two had a big fight about dealing with the mess in the house.
The argument escalated and became heated, their words became rude, and they even threw clothes at each other. Not stopping there, SUGA and RM also threw pillows at each other like children and the argument couldn't stop. It was only when j-hope, Jimin and Jungkook ran into the room that they stopped. That was due to j-hope's very angry expression because the two of them messed up the clothes that he and Jimin spent hours ironing and folding.
In the end, SUGA and RM had to apologize to j-hope and fold the clothes they had thrown away while reconciling with each other. SUGA and RM also realized many things about each other and their relationship improved a lot after the incident. Obviously, no matter how tense and chaotic the argument becomes, they know how to express their anger without turning into physical νισℓєи¢є.
The story ended in a lovely way and the lesson we can learn here is that when both have arguments and conflicts, they never intend to harm the other. We always know that even within families there will be conflicts, but arguments are just a catalyst to strengthen the bond between loved ones!
