It’s not just ordinary girls; many female celebrities—and even pageant queens—frequently mention BTS members when asked about their ideal boyfriend. When people think of BTS, they immediately envision seven men who share a rare combination of qualities: fame, stunning visuals, wealth, talent, strong personalities, and a wholesome lifestyle. That is why narrowing it down to just one 'ultimate ideal boyfriend' is such a challenge.
However, it is not impossible! Some quick-witted fans decided to delegate this task to BTS themselves. In various interviews, fans have asked the members to pick the one person they would recommend to ARMY as the ideal partner. Having worked together for over a decade and lived in the same dorm for nearly ten years, the members undoubtedly know each other best, making them the most qualified to choose the standout candidate.
In particular, the answers from RM, j-hope, and V carry significant weight, as they are the only members with sisters. From that perspective, they can offer a more objective and accurate view of who among them would truly be the best man for a woman. It is worth noting, however, that while they provided candid answers, their choices have shifted over time—especially in the case of j-hope.
The most recent time j-hope was asked this question was at a fan signing event for the release of the mini album Charm Of Hope. During a private 60-second call, a female fan gathered her courage and asked the BTS rapper, “Can you introduce me to a boyfriend from BTS members?”
j-hope paused for a few seconds, as if thinking carefully, then broke into a bright smile and replied, “I’ll introduce you to a ‘friend’”—before naturally calling out, “RM!” The fan was clearly ѕнσ¢кed and asked, “Really?” Meanwhile, ARMYs were just as surprised that j-hope gave the green light and suggested the leader as the top candidate for ARMY’s “dream boyfriend.”
So why did j-hope choose RM? The reason isn’t hard to understand. Known for his high IQ, calm and reliable personality, sense of humor, and comforting presence, RM gives off the energy of a “safe space”—exactly what anyone would want in a romantic relationship. With the perspective of someone who now has a brother-in-law, j-hope feels that RM is now a suitable recommendation for ARMY.
Interestingly, a few years ago, j-hope didn’t seem to consider RM his top choice as he does now. This was during an interview where RM, j-hope, and V received a similar question thanks to their experience of having sisters. At that time, RM immediately chose Jimin and gave a detailed explanation to support his convincing choice.
First, he pointed out Jimin’s gentle and sweet personality. According to the leader, Jimin is calm, knows how to ease tense situations, and would love and pamper his girlfriend. Next, RM also praised Jimin as a good man who always respects and understands women through his actions and the way he treats those around him. RM believes that if Jimin were to date an ARMY, he would treat her very thoughtfully and make her truly happy.
An example supporting RM’s view is Jimin’s action during a photoshoot with renowned photographer Mugunghwa Sonyeo (MUGUNG). “It was very hot and also raining heavily on that day. While I was working, JIMIN came over and put an umbrella over me. I will never forget JIMIN and his kindness,” the photographer later shared in an interview.
That same year, j-hope also agreed with RM that Jimin was the most ideal boyfriend type if they had to recommend one BTS member to ARMY. He described Jimin as a kind boy with a gentle and friendly personality, adding that Jimin is very lovable. Meanwhile, V echoed the older members and added that he was deeply impressed by Jimin’s innocence and warm heart.
The fact that RM, j-hope, and V all mentioned Jimin once again shows just how “perfect” his qualities are. At the same time, j-hope’s differing choices between Jimin and RM at different times highlight the growing appeal of RM’s maturity and reliability over time.
However, these choices are not meant to decide who is the “best” among them, but rather serve as a great opportunity for fans to see how the members view one another. In reality, in the eyes of ARMY, no matter how many recommendations they hear, the truth is that the question “Who is the most ideal boyfriend in BTS?” has no single answer—because every BTS member would make a wonderful boyfriend.
Through these moments, fans continue to be moved by the deep bond and mutual appreciation the members share—they always see the best in each other.
