You’ve probably heard of YG Entertainment’s strict dating ban, which reportedly prohibited trainees from dating, and even after debut, artists were still required to follow this rule for at least their first three years. The company was also said to separate male and female trainees, αѕѕigning them different meal times to limit interaction and reduce the chances of romantic relationships forming. Dating has always been a highly sensitive topic for K-pop idols.

The K-pop idol industry is partly built on a sense of intimacy and exclusivity between idols and their fans. As a result, the public often places high expectations of ownership and strict image standards on celebrities. When an idol is rumored to be dating, it is often seen as breaking that “exclusive bond” with fans. This sense of “betrayal” can easily trigger negative reactions—although, of course, not all fans feel this way.

For top-tier celebrities—especially a group on the scale of BTS—dating becomes more serious than ever. Just looking at the public reactions to some dating rumors involving members in recent years is enough to understand. Based only on weak and unverified “evidence,” stories can quickly spiral out of control, leading to waves of criticism and even protest trucks demanding certain members leave the group.

Notably, Jin has been deeply aware of this since debut, which is why he believes he “cannot date.” This mindset was revealed by Kian84, a close friend of his from Netflix’s Kian's Bizarre B&B!

Specifically, in a broadcast not long ago, Kian84 and singer Chuu had an open discussion about the hidden difficulties surrounding dating and love in the entertainment industry. When talking about why idols often avoid this topic, Kian84 immediately recalled a conversation he once had with Jin, in which Jin said idols should not date because it would mean being disloyal to fans.

“There are some celebrities like that. BTS’s Jin! Even when the camera is off, he’d say, ‘I can’t date.’ I’d ask why, and he’d respond, ‘It isn’t being loyal towards the fans.’ Then I’d say, ‘Just say that in front of the public, but just date off camera,’ but he would say, ‘Hyung, no I can’t do that’”, Kian84 recounted.

Kian84’s revelation immediately surprised fans and deeply moved them. Jin’s stance on remaining single is not simply a rigid professional rule; it elevates the idea into a form of moral dedication. His refusal to “date off-camera”—even when suggested by a senior like Kian84—shows that he does not treat loyalty as a façade, but as a core personal value.

Although fans’ perspectives have gradually changed over time, and Jin is no longer a newly debuted artist for whom dating might seem “too soon,” he continues to uphold this belief to this day as a personal professional principle. He consistently places ARMY’s happiness above his own emotional needs, a stance that clearly shows how much he values his relationship with fans.

Kian84’s post about Jin quickly went viral on social media, surpαѕѕing 1.5 million views and sparking strong emotional reactions. One fan commented: "After watching that interview, I thought, no matter what situation comes his way, he’s someone who would never let people down. Fourteen years into his career, he’s already earned more than enough and could afford to loosen up a little, yet he still lives by thoughts like, ‘I have to stay loyal to the fans’ and ‘I shouldn’t become a burden to the younger members.’ He’s truly a good person. And the fact that this didn’t even come from his own mouth, but from someone who worked on a program with him, makes it all the more genuine".

Other fans expressed similar feelings as well, deeply moved by Jin’s sincerity and his strong sense of professionalism:

- He has denied many things he doesn’t want, such as dyeing his hair and acting. Artist Kim Seokjin, you are… how could anyone not love you?

- I’m not even his fan, but it’s incredible to think that this is how he feels even when there are no cameras.

- I genuinely dream of marrying Kim Seokjin. He’s good at cooking, neat and tidy, never causes dating scandals, handsome, has great physique, and doesn’t get into any nonsense outside. The ultimate husband material

- I’m crying again today because of our Seokjin. Seokjin, thank you. As expected, Kim Seokjin = loyalty

- Go ahead and date. It’s okay. You’re someone who understands our trust. You act with integrity, so it’s okay—do what you want

- Oh my, our Seokjin. Jin-ARMYs’ hearts are breaking. When it comes to loyalty, it’s Jin—our Seokjin, as always

- I’m touched by how much he thinks of his fans, but at the same time, I also feel sorry

- Ah, Seokjin… this mom-fan’s heart is breaking. But still, I’m so proud of that mindset

- The way he thinks about staying loyal to us is so beautiful

- Jin is an idol who truly shows genuine respect toward his fans. He’s the kind of person who makes fans say, ‘Seokjin, please go date—go get married.’ Honestly, Kim Seokjin’s love for his fans is real