Among BTS fans, women make up the majority, and many of us see the members as ideal role models. Of course, it goes without saying how high-quality they are as boyfriends and how reliable they would be as partners. However, the reality is that the chances of becoming the girlfriend or life partner of BTS superstars are extremely low.
Therefore, beyond the romantic dreams of a fangirl and the love for their idols, ARMYs ultimately have to return to their everyday lives and form romantic relationships with other men.
Meanwhile, there are only about two days left until Valentine’s Day—the sweetest holiday for couples around the world. Many fans in the fandom will celebrate this day with their boyfriends, some are excitedly stepping into new romantic relationships, while others express anxiety when thinking about love and relationships.
On this day, some love advices given by BTS to ARMYs spreads through the fandom like a guiding light. Among them, one piece of advice from j-hope is considered particularly valuable, especially for fans who have just fallen in love or started getting to know someone.
Specifically, j-hope met a fan during the online fan-sign event “Charm Of Hope,” and at the end of the call, she asked him a rather delicate yet realistic question: “Oppa, what kind of men should I avoid dating?”
Without hesitation, j-hope laughed and delivered a blunt, almost brutally honest answer: “You should be cautious about all of them.”
Yes, you heard that right! No exceptions, no specific red flags—just an all-encompαѕѕing warning. His answer was straightforward, humorous, and somehow… very understandable, making ARMYs burst into laughter and nod in agreement across social media.
By telling fans to be cautious of “everyone,” j-hope was not trying to radicalize views on relationships, but rather reminding them to stay rational and vigilant. In the unpredictable world of dating, “caution” is the best armor to protect a woman from unnecessary emotional harm. Fans also quickly pointed out that j-hope is known for being meticulous and perceptive, so even if he was joking, his words still carried a practical and valuable lesson.
In addition, fans appreciated how this fan sought realistic advice from j-hope and how he responded with a very natural protective instinct. His reaction felt like the advice of a family member. At that moment, j-hope was not just an idol but also an emotional guide for ARMYs: Always know how to protect your heart before placing your trust in anyone else.
As Valentine’s Day approaches, this valuable piece of relationship advice from j-hope has once again gone viral. Fans flooded social media with interesting reactions such as:
- Hobi doesn’t trust anyone and now neither will I!
- That answer is both adorable and terrifyingly accurate.
- j-hope: Men? Just be careful with all of them. That’s it, that’s the tweet.
- I trust oppa. Better alone than dating the wrong guy!
- If j-hope says be cautious, I’m not risking anything anymore!
- He said "If its not me then don't"
- SAY IT LOUDER JHOPE!! I love this man so much! Bro spitting facts!
- Hobi's real one I stan the right people. I'm gonna listen to what my brother says.
- And then people ask us why we love them Bishes they are the STANDARD
- j-hope saying ‘be careful with all men’ is lowkey the best dating advice ever. He’s so real for that
- Honestly, that sounded like soмєтнing an older brother would say. Protect your heart first, ARMYs
- He’s joking, but also not joking at all. That’s actually such a wise and realistic answer
- The way he immediately said ‘all of them’ took me out but he’s absolutely right
