For years, BTS hasn’t just captivated au∂ιєnces with their music—they’ve also reigned as the ultimate “dream boyfriends” of millions of girls around the world, including some famous ones. Good looks, unmatched talent, kind hearts, fame, fortune… it’s like there’s not a single “perfect guy” quality they don’t have.
And if there’s anyone most determined to claim the title of “BTS’s girlfriend,” it’s undoubtedly ARMYs. Dating a superstar idol might sound crazy—but hey, no one’s taxing your dreams, right?
That’s why fans have never held back when it comes to flirting with BTS online or pouring out their love at any chance they get. One bold fan even went a step further—she straight-up asked a BTS member to introduce her to one of the seven!
This hilarious and adorable moment took place during j-hope’s “Charm Of Hope” Video Call Fansign Event on July 16. Out of the 100 lucky fans chosen via lottery from thousands of album buyers worldwide, one fan’s short video quickly went viral for the rapper’s choice.
During her 60-second 1:1 call, the female ARMY gathered all her courage and asked, “Can you introduce me to a boyfriend from BTS members?”
j-hope paused for a few seconds, as if thinking deeply, then broke into a bright smile and answered, “I’ll introduce you to a ‘friend’”—before casually calling out, “RM!”
The fan was clearly caught off guard and asked, “Really?” while the rest of ARMYs watching the clip ℓσѕт their minds. With just two letters—“RM!”—j-hope basically gave a green light: the leader is the top candidate for “dream boyfriend.”
So why did j-hope choose RM? It’s honestly not that hard to see why. Known for his high IQ, calm and reliable personality, sense of humor, and comforting presence, RM gives off “safe space” energy—exactly what anyone would want in a romantic relationship. He fits the bill for ARMYs’ ideal type in j-hope’s eyes.
Naturally, ARMYs lit up social media with reactions:
- RM — boyfriend material, top-tier status unlocked!
- I need to DM RM real quick and claim spot #2
- j-hope said ‘friend’ but he knew exactly what we meant!
- it’s so funny to me how they just throw other members into these situations
- Guyssss. Namjoon is single And I think I have a chance (yeah I know m being delusional)
- they keep throwing each other under the bus. Everyone trying to set him up
- Hobi knew what we needed before we even asked. RM is the blueprint!
- If j-hope says it’s RM, then who are we to question fate?
- Okay but… imagine RM reading philosophy books with you on a date. I’m done
- Not j-hope casually handing over the most emotionally intelligent man in K-pop
- RM being the boyfriend pick makes too much sense—tall, smart, deep voice, emotionally available… we’ve won.
And if you’re thinking of impressing RM, you might want to take notes from what he’s shared about his ideal type over the years. RM has said he’s drawn to people with depth—someone he can talk to about philosophy, art, or social issues.
He values relationships built on clear, honest, and mature communication. Plus, he once revealed that his ideal type is someone who is both smart and feminine. He also shared that he would like it if she had a ѕєχy and nice voice.
And if you’re an art lover? That’s a major bonus point—you might just have soмєтнing big in common with him.
